Sometimes it is inevitable for everything that might happen within a pastoral service in the parish. I want to tell what happened to me, to make it clear that no one can use negative attitudes within a pastoral service; because it’s like expelling members who are doing a selfless service. My pastoral service in the parish consisted of two functions and am going to narrate them in order because an event led to the next. As he narrated above, I was as director of the choir of the charismatic prayer group of our parish and as a member of the Pastoral Council. In the Pastoral Council were seven people with the pastor at the head. Seven people whom, three were four men and ladies.
One of the ladies was Secretary of records for each meeting and your name is Gabriela, and is the reason that I went away definitely parish, but not of the Church. This lady already had spoken to me before, but I didn’t want to believe nothing of what you told me, because at the beginning not I realized her behavior and I was slowly discovering. I have always said that we should not look at the person making service in the parish, but see the service is doing, to be able to assess his work; but this time I think there is the exception, because while it is true that not him unable to remove the hard work and dedication to his pastoral service, we can not fail to mention negative in this person. A first detail that I discovered, and which I had already heard, is that liked the Mrs Gabriela make you feel like the victim. At Council meeting, with the present parish priest, liked repeated times, say much they abused her and that he was going to leave the Office. The first time I heard it seemed normal, but this was recurring, and seems like he liked to tell him he should not do that, because the parish needed it much, and not to do if these people, since they were a few envious and that Jesus also suffered the same.